You have to be a creature unlike any other. It’s an attitude, sense of confidence and radiance that flows within you from head to toe. It’s the way you light up a room when you smile. The way you pause in between your sentences and not babble because of nervousness. To how you listen attentively to other peoples words. By how you keep yourself look demurely; and never stare. How you slowly breathe, stand straight with the correct posture, and to how you walk briskly with your shoulders back. When a relationship ends, and doesn’t work out, you dab away a tear that it doesn’t smudge to destroy your make up and move on!
You must realized that you can never find Mr. Right naturally just like in a TV show or fantasy stories. You have to make social action even If you don’t want to. Be sociable, and meet people!
Go to a salon, get your hair done, have a manicure and prettify yourself up! Attend parties or go on another date. Do something to increase the chances of meeting men, you’ll never know.. You might just meet your Mr. Right!
Don’t waste your time on fantasy. You may have a good relationship with that guy next door, your bestfriend, or with that hot guy you met weeks ago, everything doesn’t matter If all you do is wonder If he is interested in you romantically. How would you know? If he has never asked you out, then accept this, He’s Not Just Into You!
Men easily loses interest. Yes, do reply to him once in awhile, but you don’t have to give him your response to every messages he sends you. Men loves to be challenged, and this is why they are hook on sports, remember?
Remember that those three visits are nothing more than just three dates, and through those times we don’t have sex with them, nor have them stay in our place overnight. You don’t let your man get used to the point where in you are the one who always make the first move to visit him.
It’s a basic foundation of The Rules, always remember that Men Purses Women. Don’t go chasing them, and let them chase you instead. Keep in mind that every man has his own type of a woman. The type of voice he wants to hear, or a physical figure of a woman. There has to be a spark for him that attracts him to you, something that will make him find you exceptionally special.
We all know that this is the most difficult thing to accept, it’s not he’s busy that he did not called. It’s not because you didn’t looked hot, or not because you think you got fat. It’s definitely not because he lost your number, or he was out of town. The bottom line of all these is that, If he hasn’t called, he’s just not interested.
If you’ve followed the Rules, your man probably is not head over heels madly in love with you and wants to marry you. It’s not the problem If he wants to marry you, but the problem is, when will he marry you? If it’s more than a year, start seeing less of him and think of dating others. Think, If you’ve spent more than a year with him just waiting for his marriage proposal, do you have the patience of another year to wait?
Love may be really blind, but a Rules Girl is not and never stupid! Do you know how your man acts in a relationship? Is he cheap on dates even If he’s salary is above average? Does he give you a hard time and stay critical on you? Remember, The Rules isn’t about the first man you are attracted with, nor with the first guy who constantly calls you after work, and gives you goodies of flowers and chocolates. It’s about marrying your own personal Mr. Right, a man whom you love, and a man in which has a character that you really admire and can live with till eternity.
Treat yourself, have a bubble bath, take care of yourself, and build up your soul with a positive slogan to start the day. Face the mirror, and tell yourself, “I am beautiful, and I am enough. I deserve to be happy.”
You must learn to accept that as an adult, you can’t rely on other people to do things for you, even with your friends. Even If you don’t meet your Mr. Right, by going out whether in a restaurant, college lectures, or party events, is always a chance to meet new people, and a chance to always practice, The Rules!
Note: These Top Ten Rules was a little revised for focusing the Filipino Lifestyle, but the rules are still the same.
